Dear One, You deserve to take up space.
The world puts forth a myth that there is only one right way of being. If you don’t fit the default, you should shrink, be silenced, disappear yourself OR face disapproval, rejection, and even violence.
This kind of oppression is debilitating and can show up like:
Internalized oppression
Working hard to blend in or “pass”
Feeling foggy, tingly, or disconnected from self
Negative self-talk or a loud inner critic
Therapy is taking up space.
A courageous act of defiance that says, “I am worthy of healing attention.” In therapy, we’ll co-create a space where you can:
EXPLORE who you are without fear of rejection.
LEARN to listen to your body and emotional experience and precisely identify what you’re feeling.
HEAL by responding to the needs that show up in those feelings.
RECLAIM your rightful space in an unjust world.
The magic sauce to my approach is using evidenced-based therapy approaches, with a relational feel, and through an intersectional, feminist lens. That’s a mouthful! Translation - I have seen clients:
Connect with their truest self
Unpack the impact of the “isms” and inequity in their lives
Go from overwhelmed to skillfully managing their emotions
Heal ancient or recent trauma
Trade in harmful ways of coping for healthy, authentic self-care
Build better relationships with healthy boundaries
Keep on reading or check out my LGBTQ+ and EMDR pages for more details on my specialties.
Approach
EMDR Trained
Interpersonal Neurobiology
Trauma Informed Therapy
Parts Work
Somatic (Body) Awareness
Mindfulness Practices
Values
Intersectional Feminism
Culturally Responsive
Intuitive Eating and Health at Every Size® (HAES)
Relational
LGBTQ+, Poly, and Kink Affirming
Sex Worker Positive
Specialties
LGBTQ+ Issues & Coming Out
People Pleasing
Trauma Recovery & PTSD
Body Acceptance & Liberation
Shame & Imposter Syndrome
Anxiety and Depression
“Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.”
— Audre Lorde